The Seeking Recommendations Thread šŸ“š

I gathered that you prefer a manga with a lot of dialogue? How do you feel about romance, do you have a preference for male/female main characters? Should it be present day or is a historical or even fantasy setting also okay?


This is a series focusing on a woman’s life. Lots of interactions with the people in her life… also her ex boyfriends seem to play a role. Slow start!

This series is very romance focused. Lots of dialogue, some work setting, some everyday stuff. Very SoL. Very romance. (The first volume has one iffy scene.)

Not too sure what genre this is. I think SoL? Not as dialogue heavy, but it’s not too sparse either from what I remember. Probably turning into a romance down the road. It’s quite artistic(?).

The following doesn’t exactly fit your requirement of purely adult characters. One of the main characters is a high school student, the other her aunt. We get both the student and the aunt’s POV, so there’s a good mix. The tone overall isn’t childish, but it is a coming of age story. I’d say the focus is family.

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There’s a drama adaptation of this series and the ā€œspicyā€ scenes are hilarious. Iirc it was like, dancing around in clouds of pink smoke to imply sex?

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The drama adaptation is hilarious, I loved it. :joy: Iirc they all had a different… Um, setting? :joy:

I’d watch it again if VPN wasn’t such a hassle, haha.

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I wonder if there should be a list in the first post of people who want recommendations + some kind of summary/link to post? Otherwise a post could easily get buried in the flow…

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I wish discourse had a thread-in-thread system, where you could branch out by 1 within a topic, so the main posts asking for recs, would have their subtrees of replies. (I know, it has it to some extend, if you click on the ā€œ3 repliesā€ thingy, but finding the main rec posts is a hassle as you cannot ā€œhideā€ the replies)

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Thanks, this looks like a good fit! And even if it’s not, it’s short and free :grin:

:rofl: Now I want to watch it just for this scene!

Very good point. I made the first post a wiki, but I’m not sure how to format the list. I’ll think about it, but meanwhile, if someone else has a good idea, feel free to edit! :+1:

Edit: One thing to consider is, do we keep all recommendation requests for ever, or is there a stage when we consider them filled? For me it’s more of a constant thing, so the more recommendations I get, even much later, the better, but does it make sense to keep recommendation requests open indefinitely when dozens more are added? :thinking:
Also, maybe it would also be nice to list answers to each recommendation request? (Organizing is hard!)
@biblio’s idea of a thread-in-thread system sounds ideal, but I don’t think there’s a way to do that here.

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Original Post Genre In Out Additional preferences
omk3 Horror secluded village/island with a dark secret Violence towards animals or young children creeping dread, a suffocating atmosphere of unknown danger

Something like this maybe? but it’s really annyoing to format. :thinking:
This is what it looks like in editing:

| **Original Post** | **Genre** | **In** | **Out** | **Additional preferences** |
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| [omk3](http://forums.learnnatively.com/t/the-seeking-recommendations-thread/4513/2?u=biblio) | Horror | secluded village/island with a dark secret | Violence towards animals or young children | creeping dread, a suffocating atmosphere of unknown danger |
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If people click on the original post link, they can then click the X件の返俔 and see all related replies.

It should be up to each requestor to add their request to the table. (Does discourse have a proper table add-on? this seems like such a missing feature.)

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A sub-category like MU’s ā€œI’m Looking Forā€¦ā€ might be useful. :thinking:

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Just use an extra column for that (or move it to a different table). I wouldn’t remove it since others may want the same kind of stuff. Plus, when I got recommendations in the past, I did come back to them more than a few times as I read them over time. Having the link directly available is more convenient :sweat_smile:

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This looks great, but it contains so much info it almost renders the actual post redundant :sweat_smile:
I mainly worry that it won’t be maintained properly though.

So yes, something like that would work if we had a whole Recommendations forum subcategory (which isn’t a bad idea). But for now we only have this thread.

I definitely wouldn’t remove. But is a request for recommendations ever really completely fulfilled? Maybe. I guess we could have three options: Open, Answered, and, I don’t know, Always Open?

So trying to keep the information in the table to a minimum, maybe something like this would work?

Original Post Genre Media Short Description Status
omk3 Horror Novel creeping dread, a suffocating atmosphere of unknown danger Always open
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Do you think it would make sense to add a date for each request in the table?
In any case, I think we should probably enter new requests as the first rather than the last line, so that they eye falls on them first, what do you all think?

Unless there are better ideas or objections, I’ll probably go ahead and make the table in the OP soonish. We can always edit it after the fact, after all.

This looks to be self-published. I have nothing against self-published works as such, on the contrary many are amazing, but many tend to be poorly edited/proofread, which can be more of a problem when you’re a learner. Do you remember noticing any language problems when you read it?

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Isn’t a table in OP overcomplicating things a bit? Seems like a lot to manage considering people’s interests change, requests get fulfilled, etc.

So what do you suggest?
We want something so that requests for recommendations don’t get lost in a sea of posts.

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It would also be helpful for those who might have be looking for a similar recommendation, and can see what’s already been suggested at a glance (clicking the link to the original request, that is). Or if someone wanders in and wants something, though they’re not sure what, they could glance at the table and potentially say, ā€œyeah, something with creeping dread and a suffocating atmosphere of unknown danger would really fit the bill right nowā€.

I figure, since the OP will be made a wiki anyway, the amount of work needed to maintain it gets spread out a little bit. Even if, say, @omk3 maintained it for a good while, then lost interest/left, there’s a chance some other good samaritan will show up to make a change here or there, etc.

That seems like a nice balance to me. Gives good opening info, but lets the original post itself still stand on its own. Might be worth putting a note in the OP as well about finding linked replies/people replying to the original post with recommendations.

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Added the table to the OP. @eagleflo and @Naphthalene , please have a look to see if the information I added for your requests is okay.

And everyone, let me know how we can make the table better if you have more ideas!
I’m still not convinced the poster’s username is more important than the date, for example. :thinking:

Also, I opted for just Open and Fulfilled as Status for simplicity’s sake, but I hope Open doesn’t look like there haven’t been good recommendations already.

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I don’t think these forums get enough activity for it to matter, at least right now.

Anyway, what’s the policy here? Add your own request to OP if you want it tracked? Or will you / other users add new ones as they see the new posts?

The idea is that everyone will add their own request to the table. I guess that if I notice there’s been requests that weren’t added I might add them myself (or someone else can), but adding someone else’s request may always result in interpretation errors. Anyway, it’s not a big deal if requests aren’t added, they just won’t be easy to find after a while, that’s all.

So far we only have three requests, but with 36 posts, they’re already easy to miss.

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Perfect, thank you!

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Maybe č»¢ē”Ÿć—ćŸć‚‰ć‚¹ćƒ©ć‚¤ćƒ ć ć£ćŸä»¶ 1 | L35 could work. I watched a couple of episodes of the anime and if I remember correctly, the MC levels up pretty quickly. :thinking:

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I read the first manga volume and the fan service was way beyond what I can handle. I guess it might be marginally better in the light novel (since it’s less visual), but I’m not risking it.